An open roundtable style discussion on topics of interest to solos!
Age of Attendees | ||
Identify as a Solo Ager; | 75% | |
Planning for a future as a solo; | 36% | |
| 48% | |
Did You Find This Discussion Helpful | ||
Yes | 99% | |
No | 1% |
Chat Transcript
15:07:50 From Rena Tobey : Hi everyone! Glad to be together! Unfortunately I have to leave early…
15:12:04 From Molly Price : Hi @Kitty Russell I work in senior living! My suggestion is when you start to feel overwhelmed with things that previously seemed simple, it may be time to think about downsizing. Also, if you are living alone, a community will keep you active and engaged :)
15:13:20 From Veda Vazquez : Good day everyone, from Coatesville, Pa-this is Veda
15:13:29 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : Let’s Talk About Your DREAM HOME and COMMUNITY FOR AGING https://www.retirementlivingsourcebook.com/events/let%E2%80%99s-talk-about-your-dream-home-and-community-for-aging
15:13:50 From Jill Kamenetz : I get lots of questions like Linda. I am a social worker and I don't necessarily know if eithically it would be appropriate to be an executor/poa, etc.
15:14:28 From Nancy Ruffner to Steve Gurney - ProAging Community(Direct Message) : Have to leave early, darn it! I am chairing our "Pros Working With Solos" group (the authors, the speakers, you know them ) . Looking forward to the recording!
15:14:39 From Teresa Tam (she/her) : Professional Patient Health Advocates may also be willing to act as HC POA. Definitely not all.
15:18:11 From Patricia C : How do you find an attorney who would do these things?
15:18:17 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : Aging Life Care™, also known as geriatric care management, is a holistic, client-centered approach to caring for older adults or others facing ongoing health challenges. Working with families, the expertise of Aging Life Care Professionals provides the answers at a time of uncertainty. https://www.aginglifecare.org/
15:19:23 From Rena Tobey : My end-of-life doula is serving as my healthcare proxy
15:19:41 From Rena Tobey : If anyone is in New York, I’m happy to refer my attorney. Contact me at renatobey@gmail.com
15:20:27 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : End-of-life doulas provide companionship, comfort, and guidance to those facing a terminal illness or death. Our non-medical holistic support encompasses emotional, spiritual, and practical care. https://inelda.org/
15:21:21 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys https://www.naela.org/
15:25:36 From Sharon Sirkis : What is dailey money manager? link?
15:26:21 From Joan Zaffarano : How feasible is it to rely on hospice care at home if you are living alone?
15:27:17 From Linda Diner : American Assoc. of Daily Money Mangers
15:28:34 From Sharon Sirkis : Thanks!
15:29:32 From Teresa Tam (she/her) : Villages are a great way to be able to age in place longer, or for good: https://www.vtvnetwork.org/
15:29:50 From Becky : In respose re Hospice it depends on the Hospice, Not all Hospices are equal. It is a growing business. I'd suggest you contact several Hospices & ask your questions to all of them.
15:31:19 From Elva Roy, Arlington TX : elvaroy@gmail.com or www.ambassadorsforagingwell.org
15:32:07 From Nancy Ruffner : Be aware that hospice care in delivery (at home) is not 24/7. Most folks must augment with other care, through home are agencies and others. So there is that risk. Study the services: hospice, palliative care, home care v. home health. then your questions will come up and you can gain clarity as you decide and plan.
15:32:11 From Jacqueline Rams : yes
15:34:24 From Joe Sperling-Protectionist-Feel Good : Check out VA -Aid & Attendance benefits sfor Veterans
15:34:32 From Jacqueline Rams : yes to rich maryuat. where do you ago?
15:35:15 From Sharon Sirkis : Asking for help is difficult when you are so used to doing things yourself. What I've learned is that people feel good and of service when they help you/us. Sometimes it's our ability to receive, i.e. we may not feel worthy or it's difficulet to receive. Receiving makes us more vulnerable as opposed to in control when we are the givers. Hope this helps.
15:36:24 From Linda Diner : does anyone have information Friends Life Care - Quaker organiztion
15:37:01 From Kitty Russell : Also, if people don't know what you are going through (what your challenges are) they won't know you need the services that may be available to you.
15:37:14 From Crystal Thomas : Reacted to "Asking for help is d..." with ????
15:37:18 From Joe Sperling-Protectionist-Feel Good : For aging in place itis important to have Long-Term Care coverage.
15:37:32 From Nancy Hutter : How do you find a "village"
15:37:57 From Teresa Tam (she/her) : Replying to "How do you find a "v..."
https://www.vtvnetwork.org/
15:38:49 From Cynde :: Tampa, Fla. : Re Quaker Life Care… I never heard of it but I have been looking at Kendal and Friends Homes (Quaker CCRCs)
15:38:56 From Veda Vazquez : Replying to "How do you find a "v..."
veda.vazquez@va.gov
15:38:58 From Joe Sperling-Protectionist-Feel Good : The shortage of paid caregivers is going to get worse, not better.
15:39:50 From Veda Vazquez : I am looking for resources for my boyfriend, an vietman veteran, his health is starting to decline. lives in a two story condo with horrible steps. he lives in south jersey if anyone has any resources. please help!! thank you ☺️
15:40:43 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : Our mission is to make on-demand services accessible and reliable so we can thrive independently and confidently at home and in the community as we age. https://gogograndparent.com/
15:41:55 From Tracee Garner : I think it’s important to realize that people often WANT and Desire to help others, they just don’t know to help but they are often completely willing to provide support. Start with a short, non identifying note on Nextdoor, a neighborhood website or other small community where there aren’t tons of people and see what opens up. And practice, practice that you will get in the habit and it will soon become Easier for you to do.
15:43:53 From Paul Moss : Steve -goGo grand...? Site
15:44:18 From Patricia C : I volunteer with an agency that provides free transportation to anyone 62 or older. Many communities have resources that are available but you have to be a detective sometimes to find them.
15:44:30 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : Tucson Home Sharing, Inc. provides education, outreach and advocacy
toward creating and sustaining home sharing partnerships while supporting
all other beneficial planning outcomes for healthy aging. https://www.tucsonhomesharing.org/
15:44:45 From Deb Knox : Tucson Home Sharing, www..tucsonhomesharing@gmail.com
15:46:02 From Judy Kinsey to Steve Gurney - ProAging Community(Direct Message) : Where is the Uber/ Lift and whatever other system you mentioned? I can't find where you put it. In chat?
15:46:28 From Deb Knox : tucsonhomesharing.org
15:47:05 From Cynde :: Tampa, Fla. : Replying to "Steve -goGo grand......"
https://gogograndparent.com
15:47:39 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : Our mission is to make on-demand services accessible and reliable so we can thrive independently and confidently at home and in the community as we age. https://gogograndparent.com/
15:48:53 From Judy Kinsey to Steve Gurney - ProAging Community(Direct Message) : Thank you
15:49:31 From Sharon Sirkis : love it!
15:50:07 From martin K : Maybe it would be beneficial if people added to to name where they are from and if they either will provide or need help to this community can help
15:50:45 From Ruth Y : Replying to "How do you find a "v..."
Hi! This is Ruth Grover from Alexandria, VA!
15:50:58 From Elisabeth Green : I am using my MS in Biomedical Engineering to expand healthspan for wise women including clinical trials that the NIH has recently opened to partnership with biohackers. Who else is ready to collaborate to empower women seeking regenerative medicine? I would like to help write proposals to develop injectable hydrogels that detect biomarkers & release stem cells or other biologics. Who should I connect with? Any biohackers here?
15:51:03 From Kitty Russell : Kitty Russell, Arlington, VA
15:51:16 From Teresa Tam (she/her) : Teresa Tam, Seattle, WA
15:51:17 From Irene Rutter : I’m Irene from Montgomery County, MD.
15:51:24 From Maria Salerno : Maria from Lamorinda Village in the East Bay area, California
15:51:45 From martin K : NoVa
15:51:50 From Anna Harvey to Steve Gurney - ProAging Community(Direct Message) : everyone types their location into chat - BUT don't press Enter until you Steve give the word.... Creates a "waterfall" of responses. ????
15:51:50 From Pamela Houghtaling, Falls Church, VA : Pamela Houghtaling, Falls Church, VA
15:52:01 From Cherie Lockett : Cherie Lockett - Chicago/Evanston, IL
15:52:22 From susan v : I'm in the SF bay area, CA (north bay)
15:52:24 From Sharon Sirkis : Sharon Sirkis Columbia, MD
15:52:40 From Kristy Kennedy : Ginger Noce, DC
15:52:56 From Maria Salerno : Was wondering if any of the participant in this session are in a Solo Living Program. We are trying to form a group to exchange ideas and experiences. Thank you!
15:52:58 From Cynde :: Tampa, Fla. : Replying to "I am using my MS in ..."
Kinda sorta. Not sure what you are looking for.
15:53:28 From Sharon Sirkis : Whaaaaat?!!!!
15:53:29 From Kyle Frank (The View Alexandria by Goodwin Living) : I am Kyle from The View Alexandria by Goodwin Living. We are a month-to-month rental community for seniors in the Northern Virginia and DC area. Goodwin currently provides care and resources for about 2500 older adults, including independent/assisted living, long term care, skilled nursing, memory care, rehab, home health, and hospice.
15:54:07 From Kitty Russell, Arlington, VA : Replying to "I am Kyle from The V..."
You rock!
15:54:13 From Anna Harvey : what's a Solo Living Program, please? (from chat)
15:54:22 From Kyle Frank (The View Alexandria by Goodwin Living) : Reacted to "You rock!" with ❤️
15:54:50 From Teresa Tam (she/her) : Replying to "Was wondering if any..."
Yes, I lead Solo Aging groups in Seattle, WA. Feel free to contact me at teresat@phinneycenter.org
15:55:00 From Elisabeth Green : Green@green247.org
15:55:47 From Maria Salerno : Thank you Teresa!
15:56:04 From Veda Vazquez : Paul you are pretty awesome!!
15:56:13 From Stephen Hobbs (AB, Canada) : WELLcome, conversations about Living Legacy Life as a SoloAger - stephen@wellthmovement.com
15:56:14 From martin K : I’ve always lived alone and thus always cooked for myself
15:56:36 From Kitty Russell, Arlington, VA : Reacted to "I’ve always lived al..." with ????
15:56:51 From Elisabeth Green : Reacted to I’ve always lived al... with "????"
15:58:05 From Tracee Garner : Just FYI Aging Solo is a program that is often offered at local aging services, e.g AOA or Centers for Independent Living. We just finished teaching it, it’s just six lessons and it’s phenomenal course, you can see more about it here: https://www.iona.org/services/take-charge-age-well-academy/agingsolo/
15:58:15 From Gloria Levin, DC area : To get started, contact your Area Agency on Aging. All jurisdictions have one.
15:58:37 From Veda Vazquez : there are older adult peer support.
15:59:03 From Maria Salerno : m.salerno@iese.net (Lamorinda Village) trying to form a Living Solo Program for our members.
16:00:16 From Kitty Russell, Arlington, VA : Blue zone? What is it?
16:01:00 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : BLUE ZONES® https://www.bluezones.com/
16:01:15 From Cyndie Taylor/Indianapolis : There is a book called blue zone & netflix has a series on it.
16:01:16 From Barbara Weidhorn : Thank you for this interesting networking meeting for solo agers, I relate to how hard it is to ask for help and worry about reaching out to strangers. Hope you do this again. Sorry that I have to leave early because I have another meeting scheduled. Take care all.
16:02:22 From martin K : AARP magazine had a recent article on centenarians
16:02:27 From Sharon Sirkis : Go for it!
16:02:32 From Kitty Russell, Arlington, VA : I think an hour is the right amount of time for this. And thank you for this forum for sharing questions and ideas!
16:02:46 From Sharon Sirkis : Thank you!!!
16:03:17 From Paul Moss : Thank you!
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